If you feel confused and overwhelmed, you share that with many of us.
Perhaps you kick a few pebbles, sad and dejected about the state of the world – or your life.
Is there something you want to do? But it is such a big monster your heart starts pounding just thinking about it. You even look under your bed, to make sure the monster isn’t there?
A conversation with a friendly stranger can push your thoughts in a more invigorating direction.
Whether You Need Help With...
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An uninspiring life.
A new direction.
Toxic work.
Moving house – moving abroad.
Getting rid of the monsters under your bed – or in your brain.
How to make Moaning Myrtle, Boisterous Bob and Haughty Hannah stay out of your life.
Or, you-tell-me-what,
– I will listen to you.
How I Can Help You
What we may talk about:
To find out what you really want 🍓 That may differ from what you think it is. People are often unhappy because they never ask themselves such profound questions.
Encourage you to experiment 🧨 We must allow ourselves to test out things. Make a tilted bird table. Some sweaty pot holders. Only then can we find out what fits and resonates with us.
Visions 🏰🏞️🏛️🎇 People lead limited lives due to a lack of visions. What does your ideal home, community, workplace or country look like? What little pieces in those big puzzles can you add?
Trust yourself 🧸 Not just to keep promises to yourself. But also, to trust that YOU can take care of YOU.
Face truths 🍄 About what you need to do. About your illusions. “Things will get better when, …” Get rid of the weed to make room for the flourishing garden you envision.
Immediate Results
An hour of talking through such profound issues as listed above will make you calmer. The monsters in your head will be subdued.
Often, I have felt like a walking overheated engine. It is hard to fix that on your own. Clarity comes from relaxed conversations.
Talking to an outsider with other life experiences than you own will also give you perspectives. “I have never thought of that.”
Perhaps we have even agreed on you starting some experimentation? To do something you don’t really dare to do? Then we can talk about that the next time we see each other. Bravery makes wonders with your mood.
My aim is to send you off feeling more capable and cheerful than when we started.
Longer-term Results
If you implement any of the “How I can help you” points above, you will become a more mature person.
You will be less of a problem to yourself. More of a good friend.
That will also make it easier for you to live your own life, not one dictated by others.
Living life on your own terms makes you powerful.
And what do people with mature power do? They influence and inspire others.
We Need Deep Conversations
Did you know that people who have more deep conversations are happier than those who tend to enter into small talk? That is according to a published study (find a link below).
We enjoy deep conversations, but we also need them. Because “Substantive conversation connects, while small talk doesn’t,” as another study suggests.
Humans are social animals with a deep need to feel connected to others. And connectedness creates meaning, another human need.
I can offer you a nourishing conversation. My aim is to help you think. And to give you some wholesome guidance.
Perhaps you realise you don’t want to reach that mountain top – after all. You just want to find a lush and welcoming little valley where you can have peace of mind.
Easier to Talk to a Stranger
Have you ever experienced that it is easier to talk to a stranger? About what matters most to you?
In a hectic life, we seldom have deep conversations with people around us. Our conversations centre around mundane pains and pleasures. Social media gossip. The traffic. The weather.
We don’t talk about what is important to us. What we dream about. We convince ourselves we don’t care. We are afraid of being ridiculed.
A stranger doesn’t have a mountain of preconceived notions about who you are and what is best for you. Family and friends also have a tendency not to be honest with us.
A study suggests (find a link below) that we truly enjoy deep conversations with strangers.
Why Should You Talk to Me?
I come from Norway 🇳🇴
Why do I mention that?
Because the Internet and online services are heavily dominated by American values and mindsets. Where “success” most often means money. Where you are either a winner or a loser.
In Norway, we have other values. Those values are reflected in the advice I will give to you.
Norwegians are more concerned about leading a good, humorous life than stacks of money. We work to live, and we live to enjoy life. And we want the same for everyone.
So, if you are looking for someone who can promise you a 6-figure income in 3 months, and sipping umbrella drinks at exclusive resorts while you shake your Rolexes and diamonds, you have to go somewhere else. This is a diamond free zone 😊
A global citizen 🌍
I have lived in 10 different countries, on 3 different continents.
I have worked with many different people. From illiterate farmers to ministers. That has made me good at seeing people as they are, no matter their background, culture or profession.
People around the world share much the same needs. But they want to manifest them in different ways.
At the same time, we need outside perspectives. People in your own culture will give you one type of advice. My advice to you will come from a wider source.
I have always been a person people come to when they need to talk. About work, but also personal matters. Numerous times I have been told “I remember what you said to me” (years ago). Or people have followed my advice, but are convinced they came up with the ideas themselves!
Now I want to help more people, who need a slow-chewing conversation spiced with some sound guidance.
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Get help with the monsters under your bed – or in your head.
I am not a therapist, and no information or advice I give you should be construed as psychological or therapeutic advice. Are you in need of such advice, please seek professional help.
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Refund
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